A masturbation log is just what it sounds like: a place where you can write about what worked under the sheets. It illustrates your past, present, and future sexual desires and serves as a safe space to let all of your fantasies come to light.
Read MoreWhy didn’t my vagina look like that? Am I supposed to shave? How do I bend like that? Is this what sex looks like?
Read MoreI know I have joked about being sex-negative, but the truth is that I was affected by the messaging I received throughout my childhood. I sometimes still am.
Read MoreThe expression of independence is a growing narrative within society, with more and more people owning their sexuality and pleasure. It’s liberating, but it also creates two poles of relationships: the casual and the serious.
Read MoreThe first man I became romantically involved with was 19 years old when I met him. I had freshly turned 15 at the peak of our relationship, and to make matters worse, he was my theater camp counselor.
Read MoreLots of people covet melding pain with pleasure by imprinting marks in this way. In fact, the close connection between pain and pleasure bases itself in science.
Read MoreAfter an uncomfortable, honest discussion, I told Rodgers that although I did like him, we were just too sexually incompatible and that I didn’t think we should continue seeing each other.
Read MoreI asked Christie, a college student trying to make ends meet, what life is like for a stripper…
Read More“I feel like we try to make first times so big and make them more important than they have to be…”
Read MoreIt’s funny what we come up with when we don’t understand, but it is even funnier to see how much we didn’t know before we had “the talk.”
Read MoreThe demand for queer sex in film is the demand to normalize queer sex, which is something that has been seen as sinful for so many years in media, pop culture, and society.
Read MoreTime and time again, a bisexual person is considered “gay” if they are with someone of the same-sex and “straight” if they are with someone of the opposite sex.
Read More...it’s not uncommon for singles to put on their rose-colored glasses anyways and wind up in relationships with people whom they would’ve never even considered before.
Read MoreEven if you choose to dismiss the rich historical context surrounding racial fetishization, the fact remains: it is everywhere.
Read More"We have to be wantable and unattainable, easy and on call..."
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