Laced in Confidence

Written by Lily Brown

Photographed by Eliana Vega

Lin·ge·rie — län-jə-ˈrā

Noun: Women's intimate apparel

As stated in the definition above, lingerie is primarily a category of women’s clothing. It includes undergarments, some sleepwear, maybe even a lightweight robe. The choice of the word is often motivated by an intention to imply that the garments are alluring, fashionable, or both. What really matters though is the word intimate.

Lingerie is about more than just style; it's about a feeling. Intimate doesn’t mean for someone else’s eyes—it’s about what it makes you feel like. You’re wearing that lace because it’s a secret little moment between you and yourself.

One might say lingerie and intimate are synonymous. Plus, it’s true that lingerie is often seen as a symbol of sexiness. But it’s also quiet confidence. You don’t need to be loud to be powerful. When you slip into something soft and delicate, it’s like the world slows down. You’re suddenly untouchable, that’s the magic.

Not only does lingerie bring out undeniable self-assurance, but it can also be a little rebellious. No longer does it imply something you hide away for someone else to discover. It’s a way of expressing who you are, and we love a little defiance, don’t we? Throw on a bralette with a blazer, let the world know you mean business, and play. Wear it under your oversized hoodie or let it peek out from a chunky sweater—who says it’s meant to be hidden?

Lingerie has definitely evolved from its once traditional role. Nowadays, it’s all about showing off who you are. You don’t need a boudoir to rock a killer lingerie look; in fact, the world is your runway. Whether you're snapping selfies in a cute satin set for that effortlessly chic vibe, or strutting around in a mesh bodysuit for an impromptu TikTok, lingerie can easily double as outerwear if you know how to work it.

Lingerie is about confidence. You know that feeling when you slip on that one set and suddenly feel like you could conquer the world? Like you’re channeling your inner queen. And no, it’s not solely for impressing someone else (although, you totally still can). It’s for you, because when you feel good in it, that energy radiates. Lingerie is your secret weapon, a subtle but powerful move that’s all yours. Want to feel like you can take on the world while sipping your iced coffee in class? Once you put on your favorite lace thong under those sweatpants, boom—you’re unstoppable.

Lingerie also opens doors for exploration. Maybe it’s time to try something new: a color, fun fabric, or even an entirely different vibe. Silk is seductive; however, don’t overlook the power of mesh or velvet. One moment you’re wrapped in a cozy hoodie. Underneath, a smooth satin slip dress makes you feel ready for a romantic dinner—or maybe a late-night snack run, depending on the mood.

It’s all about mixing comfort with style. We’re talking silky camis, corset tops, lace bralettes, or vintage slip dresses that make you feel like you just walked out of a 90s music video. High-rise jeans? Sure, they’re cute, but imagine them paired with a lace-up bodysuit underneath. If you’re feeling extra, throw on some chunky boots to complete the look. Major main character energy. And don’t forget the festival moment. If you haven’t seen someone rocking a rhinestone-encrusted bralette with low-rise cargos while tossing their hair to the beat, are you even at a rave?

At the end of the day, it’s not about the brand name or the price tag (though we all love a good sale). So, the next time you reach for that oversized sweater or those sweatpants, think about how your lingerie underneath can give you a personal little boost. Don’t be afraid to show a little skin, or flash a cheeky smile at the mirror. After all, the most attractive thing you can wear is your own confidence. And that lace, satin, or anything else, those are just the cherry on top.