I Get It From My Dad: The Revival of Dad Music
During a period when I struggled with intense self-doubt, my dad showed me the therapeutic nature of live music. The concerts we shared together were transformative.
During a period when I struggled with intense self-doubt, my dad showed me the therapeutic nature of live music. The concerts we shared together were transformative.
Desperate to become one of the pack, I sought out the school’s “it-girl” and made it my mission to befriend her. Or become her.
Threesomes: a staple of sexual experimentation, the word assumed to precede a story about college coming of age or questioning of “how do you know unless you’ve tried it?” from a partner.
When you’re a kid, you don’t know that you’re different—people have to tell you. And I was told over, and over, and over.
It’s the classic tale of girl meets boy, girl dates boy, and girl falls in love with boy that has young girls swooning over ‘90s rom-coms and daydreaming about when they will meet their prince charming.
It’s important to regard that “girlishness” does not equate to thinness, whiteness, petiteness, or the infantilization of grown women.
Ad-libs, also known as words delivered spontaneously in speech, are the cherry on top. Born out of feeling intense rhythm, they beat and fill the flow of the music we’re bumping today.
Seeing how seemingly easy it is for everyone else used to make me insecure…now I can’t imagine living a life any less “lonely.”
Your energy is valuable and the key to unlocking a balanced life. Spend it on activities and people that make you feel strong, confident, and secure.