You’re Alive, Mashallah
When you’re a kid, you don’t know that you’re different—people have to tell you. And I was told over, and over, and over.
When you’re a kid, you don’t know that you’re different—people have to tell you. And I was told over, and over, and over.
Hating is one of the easiest ways to make yourself belong somewhere; by alienating others, you are making yourself desirable.
That pesky habit of greed that parents strive to eliminate from their children’s behavior has started to manifest in adult behavior as well; it is known as “gatekeeping.”
It’s important to regard that “girlishness” does not equate to thinness, whiteness, petiteness, or the infantilization of grown women.
I would often feel guilty for desiring alone time and not wanting to spend all my time with friends or family; however, I really was just unaware that my social battery was worn out.
We learn about female nurses and teachers in school—that’s expected of us. But what about those of us who want to be writers? Performers? Stand-up comics?
Threesomes: a staple of sexual experimentation, the word assumed to precede a story about college coming of age or questioning of “how do you know unless you’ve tried it?” from a partner.
Seeing how seemingly easy it is for everyone else used to make me insecure…now I can’t imagine living a life any less “lonely.”
Your energy is valuable and the key to unlocking a balanced life. Spend it on activities and people that make you feel strong, confident, and secure.